The Most Destructive Relationship Habit
If I had to summarize the single most destructive habit of an intimate relationship I would describe it as
“The Habit of NOT”
NOT sharing my sadness
NOT saying how you hurt me
NOT acknowledging when I hurt you
NOT sharing my gratitude
NOT fully embracing joy
NOT revealing my pain
NOT exposing my struggle
NOT trusting your love
NOT believing I matter to you
NOT admitting how much you matter to me
NOT allowing you to support me in my fear
If you were to choose 1 from the list (or use your own) and were to begin to work on doing the opposite, which one would it be?
