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Not That Place…

It's fascinating (and somewhat frustrating) that the vulnerable…

Still (and always) a Child

My recent experience of the beautiful picture below brought this…

What is Really at Stake in a Marriage

"There's a darkness inside that is flooded in light and I'm…

What if They Knew?

"A relationship starts to become real when it's broken and…

The Most Destructive Relationship Habit

If I had to summarize the single most destructive habit of an…

My Grandparents “Trauma Bond”

My grandparents were married in a DP camp following WW2. They…

You Make it All Mean Something

In a couples counseling session, the husband was challenged…

Broken Glass to Heal a Broken Heart

At the very end of the marriage ceremony, the last thing a…

Couples Break Up for the Same Reason they Get Together

It all has to do with core fears and vulnerabilities. One…

Reflecting on My Parents’ 50th Anniversary

I spend many hours a week with loving, amazing, dedicated couples…